Monday, January 4, 2010

New Year's Resolutions

Did your husband make any resolutions for 2010? Try to help him achieve them any way you can. There is a line between nagging and encouraging, but I think it is essentially about the attitude. If you are encouraging and uplifting, even if he fails, he will have more resolve, but if you nag and pester he will feel justified and difficulty being motivated. You have to believe in him and that in turn will motivate and help him reach his goals. I don't think anyone flourishes under criticism, but who doesn't excel with praise and support?